perf(tui): precompute maintenance set, eliminate redundant GetAllSites

Replace O(windows × sites) isMonitorInMaintenance with O(1) map lookup.
buildMaintSet runs once per refreshLive/handleTabData, not per call site.

groupSparkline/groupUptime now use m.sites (already on model) instead of
calling engine.GetAllSites() which copies the full map under a mutex.

internal/tui/tui.go

@@ -207,6 +207,7 @@ type Model struct {
 	lastTabLoad        time.Time // last dispatch of loadTabDataCmd (throttle)
 	tabSeq             int       // seq of the newest issued tab-data load
 
+	maintSet            map[int]bool
 	bottomPanel         bottomPanel
 	detailOpen          bool
 	maintCursor         int