ci: harden release pipeline and pin tooling

Un-neuter grype CVE gate (was || echo, now fails on critical).
Add .grype.yaml with ignore for CVE-2026-41589 (wish SCP —
unreachable, we only import wish/bubbletea).

Pin: grype v0.114.0, git-cliff v2.13.1, govulncheck v1.1.4.
Tag `latest` only on tag push, not workflow_dispatch.
Build path ./cmd/uptop (survives a main.go split).
Add dist/ and uptop to .dockerignore.

.gitea/workflows/ci.yml

@@ -65,7 +65,7 @@ jobs:
           go-version: "1.26"
 
       - name: Install govulncheck
-        run: go install golang.org/x/vuln/cmd/govulncheck@latest
+        run: go install golang.org/x/vuln/cmd/govulncheck@v1.1.4
 
       - name: Run govulncheck
         run: govulncheck ./...